Fr. Paul's Bulletin Articles
Palm Sunday, April 10, 2022
Today, we enter the holiest week of the church year not as individuals but as a community of faith connected in and through prayer. This is my 50th Holy Week in Oak Park and my 10th Holy Week in Ferndale. In some ways I enter Holy Week 2022 remembering all of those years. This is fitting as Holy Week is a time of remembering. The words from a Marty Haugen hymn are in my thoughts as I write this: We remember how you loved us to your death, and still we celebrate, for you are with us here; And we believe that we will see you when you come, in your glory, Lord, we remember, we celebrate, we believe.
This Holy Week as in all Holy Weeks of the past we remember, we celebrate, and we believe in the love of the Lord. Today, Palm Sunday, we come together to celebrate and receive palms as a tangible reminder of Jesus' triumphant entrance into Jerusalem and listen to the Passion Gospel. On Monday evening we will gather in prayer to reflect on areas in our lives which need healing. Our Wednesday evening prayer service will give us the opportunity to slow down and spend some time in prayer before the Easter Triduum. With the Evening Mass of the Lord's Supper on Thursday we enter into the Triduum which is the summit of the Liturgical Year. This Mass is a remembering of the Lord’s mandate to be of service to one another and the institution of the Eucharist. The Mass ends in silence (please maintain silence) without a dismissal as there is a procession with the Blessed Sacrament to the altar of repose where we pray in silence. On Good Friday we once again hear the passion reading; we venerate the cross (again, this year with a reverent bow or genuflection); pray the solemn intercessions; and share communion. The culmination of the Triduum is the Vigil Mass on Saturday when the Church keeps watch, celebrating the resurrection of Christ in the sacraments and awaiting his return in glory. It is the turning point of the Triduum, the Passover of the new covenant, which marks Christ's passage from death to life.
I pray you will make the time to fully enter into this Holy Week. The worship schedule is on page 5 of this bulletin. Please make a special effort to be part of our liturgies and worship events. It is important that I am here, but it is equally as important that you are here in prayer with the community of faith. I look forward to seeing you in church.
Lent 2022
Come back to me with all year heart. Don’t let fear keep us apart.
Dear Parish Family,
Shortly after Ash Wednesday 2020 our lives changed in a way that none of us ever experienced or could have imagined. To say that the past two years have been difficult is an understatement. Sometimes bad days were followed by worse days. We have experienced so much loss. Things we took for granted were suddenly taken away - our daily routines were interrupted, and personal interaction changed dramatically. Many long-time parishioners passed away without being able to have a celebration of their life; many of our parishioners who live alone were completely isolated; our communal prayer life and the weekly celebrations of our liturgy were sometines cancelled, restricted or limited. Things have slowly been opening up and changing for what appears to be the better. For that we should all be grateful.
Today we are in the 2022 Lenten Season. Hopefully, each of us has been able to enter this season with resolve and enthusiasm. Come Back to Me is our theme for this holy season. I encourage each of you to take this to heart. We have planned beautiful and prayerful weekend liturgies and prayer services. I encourage each of you, especially those of you who have been away, to participate in our worship opportunities.
Our Mass schedule is:
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Saturdays at 4:30pm in Oak Park
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Sundays at 9am in Oak Park and 11am in Ferndale
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Tuesdays at 9am in Ferndale
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Thursdays at 9am in Oak Park.
Our Additional Lent Worship Opportunities schedule is:
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Lent Evening Prayer on Wednesday evenings at 7pm in Oak Park
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Stations of the Cross on Friday evenings at 7pm in Ferndale
Our Lenten theme – Come Back to Me – is a clarion call to not only return to the Lord with our whole hearts but also to return to our communal prayer life. This letter is your invitation to come back and be involved in parish life. Please share it with your family, friends and neighbors who may not see this letter. We need to rebuild and grow together in our sense of God’s presence in our lives, in our church, our family of parishes, and in our world.
As COVID threatened our lives two years ago today there is another world-wide crisis occurring. Please join me in prayer that the horrible conflict in Ukraine will be resolved and all involved will find peace, justice, and safety.
Please know that each of you are in my prayers. I look forward to seeing you and welcoming you back to active participation in our community of faith.
Blessings,
Fr. Paul F. Chateau
November 18, 2021
Dear Parish Family,
I just finished reading news articles and information from Oakland County regarding the status of COVID 19 in our area. I also re-read and reflected on the description and explanation of our Advent theme – Finding Our Home – for this year.
While the COVID statistics are not encouraging, our Advent theme offers hope and the promise of better times and things. I am hopeful that each of you feel that Our Mother of Perpetual Help Parish is your spiritual home. We close one liturgical year this Sunday and begin a new one with the Advent Season. Our focus will be Finding Our Home.
For many of you, before COVID, your home was the 4:30pm Saturday Vigil Mass. I am happy to announce that this liturgy will resume in Oak Park on Saturday, December 4th. For many of you your home was in service as a liturgical minister. We are adding liturgical minister roles at all our weekend liturgies. I ask you to volunteer to serve in some capacity. You may contact Barbara Urbiel, our Worship Chair, for more information and to sign up to serve via email at barbara_urbiel@hotmail.com or phone at 313.595.3054.
Some of you found your home at our Evening Prayer Services. We will resume these services on Tuesday, Nov. 30th at 7pm in Oak Park.
Some of you found your home at Advent By Candlelight. Sadly, due to COVID we are not able to have this event this year. However, as an alternative to Advent By Candlelight, there will be a program of Music and Readings of the Season at 4:30pm on Sunday, Dec. 20th in Ferndale.
Some of you found your home at our Penance Service. This healing service will resume. There are three opportunities this year: Dec 2 we will have our first Thursday of the month Healing Mass at 7pm in Oak Park, Dec. 14 there is our Family of Parishes Penance Service at 7pm at the Church of the Transfiguration, and Dec. 20 our Advent Healing Service at 7pm in Oak Park.
Please check the bulletin, visit our website, and refer to the parish mobile app for the full schedule of Advent Worship opportunities.
Some of you found your home in our Advent Giving Opportunities. We are now a member of a Family of Parishes. In the spirit of collaboration with our Family we are collecting canned food items, pantry items, and paper products for the Franciscan Outreach Program located at Transfiguration. Please bring your donations to the gathering area at either worship location.
On Sunday, Nov. 28th Fr. Jeff Scheeler, Moderator for our Family of Parishes, will give a brief presentation on the Family of Parishes Structure after each liturgy. I encourage you to attend.
As many of you know, Sr. Jane Zoltek, who for many decades served our parish in various roles, passed away. I travelled to Garfield Heights, Ohio to celebrate her funeral Mass and her life. Many of you were not able to make that trip. In a special way we will remember her and the gifts and talents she shared so freely with us at the 4:30 Vigil Mass on December 11th.
May the Advent Season be for all of us a time of renewal and special graces and may it be a time where we once again Find Our Home.
Blessings,
Fr. Paul
Written for the July 4, 2021 Bulletin
From Fr. Paul
I hope everyone is enjoying their summer. This 4th of July is much different than last year. Indications show that the threat of the pandemic which we have been living under since March 2020 is diminishing. Hopefully, things will continue to improve and life will gradually be able to return to normal. Each day throughout the pandemic I have privately celebrated Mass daily for our parish. As prayer and celebration of the Eucharist is the heart and soul of who and what we are, it is with great joy to be able to invite greater participation and opportunities for us to worship together. On July 6th, we will begin celebrating daily Mass on Tuesdays at 9:00 am at our Ferndale worship location and on Thursdays at 9:00 am at our Oak Park worship location. Additionally, on the first Thursday of the month the healing Mass at 7:00 pm will return beginning Thursday, August 5th. Please note that the healing Mass on the first Thursday of the month will replace the 9am Mass on Thursday mornings.
Family of Parishes formally began on July 1st. The four parishes in our family include our parish, Transfiguration, Our Lady of La Salette and Divine Providence. I, along with the pastors of each of these parishes will serve in a similar manner as co-pastors with responsibility for all the parishes within our family. For the past few months, we have been meeting on a regular basis to establish a Covenant to help guide our interactions. Through this process I am committed that our own charisms and identities will be retained and flourish.
For the past few months there has been information in the bulletin on the three Family of Parishes Gatherings which will be taking place beginning on July 13th. I strongly urge you to register for these opportunities to get acquainted with our sister parishes. Please see page 4 of this bulletin for additional information and how to register.
Blessings,
Fr. Paul
Written for the May 30, 2021 Bulletin
Dear Parish Family,
For over the 14 months we have been living with the pandemic. COVID has obviously disrupted our personal lives and had a great impact on our faith life and our worship. As things gradually open up I find that in some ways I can truly identify with hibernating bears. It is not an easy re-entry.
Throughout the pandemic we have followed the directives and mandates from the Archdiocese, State, County and Health officials. As more people are vaccinated and cases of COVID-19 are decreasing, we are now beginning to see a light at the end of the tunnel. In recent weeks, many directives have been changing or are in the process of changing. It has been difficult to keep up with all of them.
On May 19 Archbishop Vigneron issued a letter to the faithful detailing new COVID liturgical protocols. After carefully reviewing them, I have the following information to share with you:
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For the time being our Mass Schedule will remain the same (Sunday, 9am in Oak Park and 11am in Ferndale).
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Effective immediately people who have been fully vaccinated no longer will be required to wear masks at Mass. Of course, if you feel more comfortable continuing to wear a mask you may do so.
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Masks are still required for those who are not vaccinated and our Eucharistic Ministers.
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There will be a dedicated section of our worship locations where social distancing and face-coverings are consistently maintained. This section is for anyone, vaccinated or unvaccinated.
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Hand sanitizer stations will still be in our worship locations and you are encouraged to use them.
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We will resume the Sign of Peace with the normal wording, “Let us offer each other the sign of peace,” allowing you and your family to make your own determinations about how widely to share some sign of peace. Please understand that some parishioners may not feel as comfortable sharing a sign of peace as you do and be respectful of their sensitivities.
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At times we may keep windows and/or doors open to ventilate our worship locations.
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On Sunday, June 6 we welcome Michael Chateau, our Director of Music, and our musicians back to church to lead us in song. Hymnals will be available. Please remember to return the hymnals to the carts when you depart mass.
Gradually and hopefully, we are moving forward to a return to normal.
The past few weeks have been busy for me related to our parish being part of Wave 1 of Family of Parishes. On May 19 and 20 I attended a retreat for pastors who are in the first wave of establishing Family of Parishes. I was happy to spend the time with the pastors of our Family: Fr. Jeff from Church of the Transfiguration in Southfield, Fr. Patrick from Our Lady of La Salette in Berkley, and Fr. Giteras from Divine Providence Lithuanian in Southfield. We have all received our clergy assignments, effective July 1, 2021, from the Archbishop which indicate that no one priest is pastor of any single parish in our Family of Parishes. Rather, we will all be pastors of all the parishes within our Family.
In addition to the retreat experience, we meet regularly as a group to work on some initial items as we move forward as a Family of Parishes. We are discerning a name for our Family of Parishes. Dedicated meetings to establish a Covenant – an agreement as to how we will work together – have been scheduled. We are looking at the new Family of Parishes organizational structure and its implications. For example, the Family will have a Family of Parishes Pastoral Council which will replace the individual parishes pastoral councils. There will also be support for Discipleship Formation, Engagement, Evangelical Charity, Family Ministries, Worship and Mission Support.
Obviously, this change from one individual parish to a Family of Parishes and all that it entails will have a real impact on all of us – the pastors, staff, volunteers, and parishioners. We are blessed that we have a wonderful and gifted Moderator of our Family, in the person of Fr. Jeff Scheeler, OFM, who along with the Holy Spirit will guide us as we move forward in this process.
Working together in faith and unity will help us all as we transition to Family of Parishes. Three gatherings for the parishioners of all the parishes in our Family have been scheduled. There will be one in June, July, and August, to help all of us as we begin this transition. Please see the article related to these gatherings on page 5 of this bulletin or visit our Family of Parishes page on our website. Please make sure you mark your calendars and register for these gatherings.
CSA 2021 is now underway. Our goal this year is $37,746. For more details about CSA and how to donate there is an article on page 3 of this bulletin or you may visit the CSA 2021 page on our website.
I will keep you updated to any future changes to our Worship COVID protocols as well as the Family of Parishes process.
Please know that all of you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Blessings,
Fr. Paul
Written for the March 21, 2021 Bulletin
Over the past year we, at Our Mother of Perpetual Help Parish, have been very careful to keep everyone safe and healthy during the pandemic. Hopefully soon we can gradually return to some semblance of normalcy.
As we continue to slowly re-enter, I have increased the capacity for the number of people who we are able to attend our liturgies to 125. Masks and social distancing requirements will still be maintained.
Our Holy Week liturgies will be modified and different from past years to follow the Archdiocesan guidelines.
The schedule for Holy Week 2021 is:
Palm Sunday of the Passion of our Lord on Sunday, March 28
at 9:00 am in Oak Park and 11:00 am in Ferndale.
Penance service on Monday, March 29
at 7pm in Oak Park
Mass of the Lords Supper on Thursday, April 1
at 7pm in Oak Park
Good Friday of the Lord’s Passion Liturgy on Friday, April 2
at 1pm in Ferndale
Holy Saturday Blessing of Food Baskets on Saturday, April 3
at 11:30am in Oak Park
Easter Sunday Mass on Sunday, April 4
at 9:00 am in Oak Park and 11:00 am in Ferndale.
As we enter into Holy Week, the most sacred time of the church year, please know that you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Fr. Paul
February 24, 2021
Dear Parish Family,
As I write this letter to you it is Day 8 of Lent 2021. Our Lenten theme, Journey Through Wilderness, is certainly on my mind. It is appropriate that we are repeating this theme this year. We are still in the wilderness caused by the COVID-19 Pandemic. There has been so much loss. Over 500,000 Americans have died from this virus. Parishioners have died without our traditional funeral masses, people have experienced the loss of not being able to see their loved ones, people are out of work, at times it seems like we have lost the light that lighted our way, and I could go on and on. For me, the biggest challenges have been the isolation and lack of community interaction that we all have been facing.
Gratefully, by the grace of God, the data indicates that the number of COVID-19 cases are trending downward. Vaccines are starting to be administered. This is good news. However, many in our community are finding it difficult to get an appointment to be vaccinated. There are are still many challenges that we continue to live with and through.
As many of you know Archbishop Vigneron announced that the general dispensation from the obligation to attend Mass on Sundays and Holy Days will expire on March 13. While the general dispensation is removed, there are specific instances where the dispensation will continue, as well as those circumstances where there is no obligation in the first place. One does not have an obligation to attend Mass on Sunday in the following circumstances:
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You are ill or your health condition would be significantly compromised if you were to contract a communicable illness (i.e., you have underlying conditions or are in a high-risk category). Please use the dispensation and do not attend Mass.
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You exhibit flu-like symptoms. Please use the dispensation and do not attend Mass.
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You have good reason to think you might be asymptomatic of a contagious illness (e.g., you were in recent contact with someone who tested positive for a contagious illness such as COVID or influenza). Please use the dispensation and do not attend Mass.
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You care for the sick, homebound, or infirmed.
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You are pregnant.
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Those 65 years of age or older (per the CDC’s recommendation of high-risk individuals).
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You cannot attend Mass through no fault of your own (e.g., no Mass is offered, you are infirmed, or, while wanting to go, you are prevented for some reason you cannot control (e.g., your ride did not show up, the church was at capacity).
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If you have significant fear or anxiety of becoming ill by being at Mass.
With this action by the Archbishop, we may be able to increase the allowable capacity for attendance at our liturgies. However, safety protocols – masks, social distancing, hand sanitizer, etc. – will remain in place. I am in the process of determining best practices for our parish. Once the plan on how best to proceed safely is determined the information will be on our website and in the bulletin.
Hopefully, the spirit of Lent will continue to resound in our hearts. Let our prayers include the intentions that our faith community will rebound, that our togetherness will be enhanced, that our tradition of charity and outreach will grow, and that personally through some private sacrifice we will become more conscious of the presence of God in our lives. Be assured that every day I say Mass for our parish, the parishioners, and our intentions.
Blessings,
Fr. Paul
December 20, 2020
Dear Parish Family,
Since March our lives have been impacted dramatically. Many have tried to follow the directions of the authorities and really contained their social interaction. Others have strongly objected to what they feel is an infringement on their personal freedom. Whatever anybody feels, the COVID19 virus is virulent with the greatest number of cases to date.
Of course, all of this has had a tremendous impact on our parish and the community. We didn’t really have a Lenten season and now our Advent and Christmas season are very much contained. Our advent theme “Waiting for the Light” is poignant. If ever we needed a sense of God’s presence and Christ’s light, we need it now.
Life always brings ups and downs. We are confronted with so many pluses and minuses. In our Ferndale worship location some needed roof repairs, work on the bells and some stained glass was done. In Oak Park some major mold issues were addresses and serious smoke damage in the rectory is in the process of remediation.
On and on it goes and we try to carry on. The emergence of approved vaccines may soon lighten the health threat we as a world have been living with for most of 2020.
Hopefully, just as Mary and Joseph faced difficulties, through the lens of faith, hope and love we will see the light of a new day.
Try to remember that with Christ in our lives it is all good.
May your closing days of Advent and the upcoming Christmas season be blessed and happy.
Blessings,
Fr. Paul